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Officer Standing – Mike Kralicek

5:52 am in Featured, Injured on Duty, Officer Shot, Police Week, Posts, Survivors: Who Wear a Badge by Carrie Kralicek

There is not a day that goes by that I am not reminded of the sacrifices that have been paid by our fallen officers which we now honor during Police Week.  When my husband was shot in the line of duty, he was not expected to live.  If he did live, I was told he would be useless and exist without any quality of life. 

Mike proved all of them wrong.  He went from being an “Officer Down” to “Officer Standing” and is a voice for the many officers that go on living.  His mission is witnessed in educating others from his experiences through public speaking, that life is worth living after injury.    As Nietzsche said, “He who has a why to live for can bear with almost any how.”

Mike had the freedom to choose how he responded to his traumatic brain and spinal cord injuries that resulted from a gunshot wound to the head.  Thinking initially that he had nothing left to live for, he came to the conclusion that his pain and suffering had meaning in his life. 

Using his personal struggles as a tool to teach others to explore their own life’s occurrences became his mission as he helps others lead more fulfilling and richer existences.  Through a tremendous will to live and an unsurpassable inner drive, Mike pushed himself beyond limitations and gained the strength to walk again after being characterized as a quadriplegic.   

Mike felt either that he could listen to others who would ensure he stayed oppressed or he could take a deeper look within himself to help others fight the good fight to build a more resilient mind.  Realizing that he could not control life’s events, he focused on his response to the instances, thus gaining control of awareness of choices and actions (Corey, 2013). 

Mike will always be a police officer and recognized that he could either be alienated and meaningless or he could use what he had left, which was his voice, to help other injured and/or disabled police officers find their own voice and still be useful members of our law enforcement society. 

To many, Mike paid a sacrifice, however from Mike’s perspective he was placed in a position for change to ensue.  He motivates others to look at their life experiences as meaningful and as having a reason for occurring whether we understand what the reason is or not (Corey, 2013).  Mike has presence and it is important that we all help other officers to allow for meaning to exist in every situation. 

When life’s tragedies happen, the possibilities for lessons learned and growth are endless.  Understanding that we are not alone and do not have to be isolated after injury is important.  Life has a limited amount of time and living life fully allows everyone, injured or not,  to gain a broader perspective. 

We can take action or not take action, with both being a valid decision (Corey, 2013).  By being able to choose how we act we can contribute to creating our own life.  Of course, initially Mike wondered why this happened to him because he was “such a good cop”.  He repeatedly questioned what he had left to live for. 

Reminding him he still could be a police officer, but in a different capacity was ultimately what gave him a new outlook and purpose on life.  The day I informed him, “the old Mike died and this is the new Mike, so let’s see what other gifts you possess that you never knew you had” was the day he started to really live again.  He was able to tap his potentiality for creativity by giving in to his will to power (Corey, 2013).

“Officer Standing” literally means “Officer Living After Injury” to us.  He refers to himself at times as K-57-Up (instead of K-57 Down).  There are many other officers living after injury.  Their stories are important and need to be heard.  Their life lessons instill hope for other injured officers to never give up and that life IS worth living and learning from.  We should thank and remember our officers who are still with us, for their service and sacrifice.  They will never be forgotten. 

TEAM LET encourages readers to view Carrie and Mike’s moving video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J21X0KHJKMw

Carrie and Mike Kralicek serve law enforcement together by telling Mike’s story of injury and triumph.  Carrie is a registered nurse and Air Force veteran with experience in the juvenile justice system. Officer Mike Kralicek suffered a near-fatal debilitating line-of-duty injury.  Both are motivational speakers working with the law enforcement community.  Mikes presentations on emotional survival resulted in both of them being named honorary life members of the International Conference of Police Chaplains.  Mike is also an Air Force veteran.   Reach them via their website at http://www.mikekralicek.com/

The Last Shift: The Beginning of the Longest Fight of Our Lives

5:28 am in Featured, Posts, Survivors: Who Wear a Badge by Lance LoRusso

This morning’s journey to begin the day feels like any other. Our minds are amazing machines! We become conditioned and prepared for any new normal that we experience. After a time, we do not remember a time when we once jumped out of bed at the sound of a telephone or pager without a second thoughts donning our uniforms and heading out the door to answer the call of duty.  However, this morning’s journey is more about endurance and stamina than any late night call-out. For today, I am a disabled LEO working harder than ever to serve my family as I carry the scars of my service through another day.

The Past Is Not Always In The Past

Unlike those LEOs currently serving, there is no squad room humor or banter to take our minds away from that last worst call. The support group and family that we knew would always be there for us, seems to be distant and often uninvolved.

We understand though. Our disabilities remind those still on the street that bad things not only happen to bad people. Bad things can happen to LEOs and our lives can change in an instant.

That last worst call is, many times for us, the last taste of law enforcement we will ever have. No more running the roads looking for bad guys, no more adrenaline rushes when the game is on, and never again will we feel the pride only LEOs know when the good guys win. While we all knew we would put away the badge someday, this is not what we expected and never what we wanted for ourselves or our families.

Where Is The Law We Know?

On our last day on the street, we were experts in criminal law and traffic law and could hold our own on discussions of criminal procedure. However, now we spend our time immersed in the strange world of workers compensation, special security and disability Law.

What happened to the person we were; the one who answered questions about the law for friends and family? We were the ones who knew the answers. Now it seems we only have the questions and the answers are never clear. 

On the street, we dealt with lawyers. We saw them in court or around the department. Like any other group of folks, there were some we liked and called our friends and others we avoided. Now we meet with new lawyers we never met before and most of our old friends with law degrees have little to offer in the way of advice.

The law once seemed like a comfort to us. It set the rules for our mission. We may not have liked some of the laws, but we had a framework that gave structure to our daily activities. Now the law is frightening and gray with too many “it depends” and “the timeline is not clear.” We are dependent upon strangers in law offices with the most important decisions in our lives. All we can do is trust that they are honest and will do their best.

Retirement has become the most frightening word we know

As rookies, we spent the time between calls joking about how we would never retire! Why would we leave the job we loved? Why would anyone ever give this up?

As time passed, we sat with those same friends accepting that one day we would look forward to retirement. Our conversations with our families actually contained discussions of plans “after we leave the department.” Now, that has all changed.

For us, retirement brings uncertainty and financial insecurity. For us there is a reality of lost healthcare, lower wages, and the realization that our identity as LEOs slipping is slowly farther away.

For many of us, retirement came and went without much to celebrate. There was no party, no cake with friends, and for some, no retired badge and ID. For some, retirement came in a letter through the mail or worse, a phone call from a human resources staff member we never met.

From Standing Tall to Barely Holding On

As our savings dwindle, our spouse works longer hours, and our children look for scholarships for college, we are reminded of the days when we were the pillar of strength within our families. When times were tough, we worked more hours, found extra jobs, and found a way to close the money gap. When things went bump in the night, our families looked to us for safety and security. It was expected that we would be up first and be there to confront any threat. Now, just as we have lost the ability to confront the attackers in our homes, we are no longer called upon to protect our neighbors.

One day, as the financial reality of being disabled hits us, we realize that there are so many resources for the families of LEOs who are killed in the line of duty. There are scholarships for the spouse and children, tax relief, and survivor funds. For us, there are a few options for benefits that possibly allow us to hold our own.

Finding a Path to Survival and the Future

About one year after that last call, I came to grips with the fact that I would never be a LEO again. There would be no more squad meetings, no more hot calls, no more joking with the only people who seemed to understand us. Despite the incredible hardships described above, it was not the loss of the job that hurt the most. For most, it was the loss of identity. For it we could not be a LEO anymore, what would we be?

One day a call comes through. It is the voice of a stranger telling us about a group that provides peer counseling for us and our spouse and a retreat for our entire family. There is no cost to us, just the effort to take the journey. However, there is more than that. There is the risk that we will travel a great distance only to be let down, but after a dozen looks at the website, many more calls with these strangers, and my family and I are on the way to a retreat completely sponsored from door to door by Hunting For Heroes (H4H).

Maybe it was meeting other LEOs who are going through the same difficulties, or perhaps it was the time away from the daily routine that has become all too familiar, but something changed that weekend. One of our sons summed up his experience telling a H4H volunteers that the best time about his weekend was, “No one is asking me what is wrong with my dad.” For my spouse it was making friends with other spouses and expanding their support base. All that was great but for me, it was simple: they made me feel like a cop again.

Hunting For Heroes: A Call to Action

The stories and examples contained in this article are real and come from the heroes we have helped. The sentiments are far too common and the plight of our disabled LEOs is unacceptable. There are no national statistics to tell us just how many LEOs have been forced to leave the profession due to a duty related injury. We know that we have about 100 LEOs and their families on our waiting list.

Reach out and help us find the disabled LEOs in your community. Let us help them continue on their journeys with the strength and pride that still resides within them. As we all learned, there is no such thing as giving up. This fight they are in is long and tough, but they are not alone. Join H4H as we live our motto, “Taking Care of Our Own.” Reach out through our website, www.huntingforheroes.org and donate what you can and volunteer with one of our events. Come meet one of our heroes and your life will never be the same.

This year during Police Week, we join you in remembering those who have made the ultimate sacrifice. We also ask you to remember those who survived those horrific encounters we read about. Remember that not everyone who survives the call returns to work.

You can find the H4H folks at the 61st Biennial Conference of the Fraternal Order of Police in Cincinnati, Ohio from August 11-15, 2013. I’ll be there meeting people and signing books. I’m honored to serve as a Board Member for H4H. Stop by, meet a hero, and learn more about H4H.

Lance LoRusso is an attorney, former LEO and founder of LoRusso Law Firm, PC in Marietta, Georgia.  He is the General Counsel for the Georgia Fraternal Order of Police and author of a blog, www.bluelinelawyer.com.  He speaks at many conferences for law enforcement on use of force, responses to critical incident, and other topics of interest to law enforcement. His book on critical incidents entitled, “When Cops Kill: The Aftermath of a Critical Incident” is available through www.whencopskill.com. Profits from this book will support law enforcement charities such as www.huntingforheroes.org. You can follow him on Facebook, LinkedIn, and Twitter (bluelinelawyer or lancelorusso).

 

Officer Peter Laboy: Shot in the Head and Fighting His Way Back

12:00 pm in Featured, Posts, Survivors: Who Wear a Badge by Christal Sizemore

The Alexandria Police Association has established a fund for the family of Officer Peter Laboy. The Alexandria Committee of Police International Union Police Association, Local #5, set up the account to assist the seriously wounded officer and his family.

Officer Laboy was shot in the head on February 27. According to Alexandria Police, two female workers at a boutique had reported a suspicious man.  Alarmed by the man’s threatening behavior, the ladies notified the police department after he had fled in a taxi cab.

Laboy responded to the  ”Be on the look out” alert.  He spotted a taxi driver matching the description. Before Laboy could initiate a traffic stop, the driver opened fire, shot Laboy in the head, and fled the scene.

The driver then lead police on a high speed chase, recklessly endangering both officers and innocent civilians before finally being apprehended and taken into custody.

The suspect was identified as 27 year old Kashif Bashir. He has been charged with the malicious wounding of a police officer and is detained awaiting a court date.

Meanwhile, LaBoy was rushed to   Medstar Medical Center in Washington D.C., where he underwent delicate surgery.  The fact that Laboy is alive today is nothing short of a miracle. His doctors are “cautious, yet hopeful” about his prognosis. Although Laboy’s helmet saved his life, the bullet struck Laboy in the temple, pierced his skull, and penetrated the portion of the brain that controls speech and motor skills.

Although he is able to move his limbs, open his eyes, recognize his family, and hug his wife and family, Laboy has a long road ahead that includes approximately 6 months to a year of intense therapy. Whether Laboy will be able to walk or speak fluidly will remain to be seen; however, doctors are amazed at the progress he has already made.

“In the first 72 hours after the incident, we weren’t even sure if he was going to make it,” said Chief Medical Officer Janis Orlowski.

Laboy is a 17-year veteran of the Alexandria Police Departmentm For the past 6 years, he has served as a motor officer.  He has endeared himself to both the law enforcement and civilian communities. He has worked the streets during his entire career, and he has become somewhat of a ‘fixture” within the community.

Former police chief David Baker described Laboy as  “friendly and dedicated, a fun guy to be around, a real caring individual, and a dedicated and distinguished public servant.”.                 “As I travel from my house in Alexandria to where I now work, more often than not I see Peter out working”.

He recalled one incident, in which he was stopped at a trafiic light Laboy pulled up alongside him in his motorcycle, honked his horn, and waved ‘hello”.    Laboy is also deeply devoted to his wife, Suzi, and their four sons. Baker recalled how proud Laboy is of his family, always sharing photos and stories of his sons’ accomplishments.

Alexandria Sheriff Dana Lawhorne concurred.  “Peter has always been committed to  his family, to the community, and to his mission as a police officer,” she said.

It was this dedication to his community that contributed to the life-altering events that occurred. The cruelty of the cab driver’s heinous act against this beloved officer has been felt by the entire community, especially to the students and faculty at Lyles-Crouch Traditional School in Old Town, with whom Laboy shares a special bond.

While his sons attended the Academy, Laboy was recognized for his willingness to take time with the kids and to show them his police cruiser. Although Laboy’s son graduated from the academy several years ago, Laboy would still visit. The school unofficially “adopted” Laboy as their own personal policeman.

Laboy also volunteers at his son’s high school.     He has touched many lives with his compassion, sensitivity, and commitment to his community. To him, no call was insignificant; no problem was so small that it he did give it his entire attention. Resident “Mango Mike” Anderson recalled how Laboy caught someone who was stealing from his establishment. He also mentioned that Laboy found Anderson’s dog when it was lost.

Suzanne Laboy has been documented her husband’s progress on Facebook. She has expressed her heartfelt appreciation for the  abundance of love, support, prayers, and well wishes that have been extended, many from people she has never even met.

In conclusion, Baker reminded everyone that there is no such thing as a “routine” call, and urged everyone to be extra cautious.    ”This brings to the forefront just how dangerous and unpredictable unseen things can become, ” he  said.  “Peter was on the lookout for this cab on some minor offense. He certainly was not expecting it to turn out like this, you get surprised, and it can be devastating.”

The fund is just one of the many ways the community has united to show their love and support. Anyone wishing to help the Laboy family can drop off a donation at the Alexandria Police Department, 3600 Wheeler Avenue or send a donation to:

Alexandria Police Association

c/o Peter Laboy

P.O. Box 1228

Alexandria, VA 22313

The Alexandria Police Department has asked that all inquiries be directed to the Public Information Office at 703.746.6600

To donate online go to:

https://www.paypal.com/us/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_flow&SESSION=ygpnogBuwKpQcG967kDp0ha19Q_EdeSiMfV46ksY-t-gff2dVWQJwlE2dkG&dispatch=5885d80a13c0db1f8e263663d3faee8dd75b1e1ec3ad97b7af62835dd81d5d52

There are now two other events in honor of the officer:

On March 21, the police department and Inova Alexandria are holding a blood drive in the Alexandria Police Department Community Room on at 2600 Wheeler Avenue.

The event is schedule from 8 a.m. to 2:30 p.m.

Those who wish to schedule an appointment may do so  at inova.org/donateblood. Click on Schedule a Donation and then Donate Blood. Use Sponsor Code 7980 — or call 1866-BLOODSAVES

On April 21, TopGolf in Kingstowne will donate all of its proceeds to the Laboy family. The cost is $25 and includes food and two drink tickets. There will also be a silent auction. For more information, visit: http://www.dccopsclassic.com/Fundraisers.html

Learn more here:

www.iupa.org

http://www.wusa9.com/news/photo-gallery.aspx?storyid=245778

http://www.wusa9.com/news/article/248876/158/Peter-Laboy-Alexandria-Officer-Who-Was-Shot-Continues-To-Recover-More-Events-To-Support-Him-At-TopGolf-And-Police-Departmet

http://articles.washingtonpost.com/2013-02-28/local/37352775_1_police-officer-motorcycle-officer-chief-medical-officer

Hero’s Homecoming

3:50 pm in Featured, Injured on Duty, Posts, Survivors: Who Wear a Badge by Christal Sizemore

The Community of Laurel, MS, recently welcomed home one of their local heroes. Lieutenant Tony Stiles triumphantly returned home after a sixty –day hospital stay at University of Alabama hospital in Birmingham.

Hundreds of friends, family, first responders, and LEOs gathered in Sandersville, MS, holding balloons and handmade signs, blowing horns, and cheering as they welcomed their hero home.

A motorcade consisting of numerous motorcycles, police cruisers, EMS crews, and fire trucks led the way with their sirens blaring.  Jones County Sheriff Alex Hodge personally escorted Lieutenant Stiles and his wife, Tina. He also led the group in prayer.

On Monday, July 29, the Jones County, MS Sheriff’s Department responded to a domestic disturbance complaint, which escalated to a 15-hour hostage situation. Stiles was shot when the SWAT team made entry into a residence in which the suspect, Neil Newcomb (a registered sex offender), had shot four people. Newcomb opened fire with an SKS rifle.  Stiles was struck four times in the abdomen and once in the left arm.

Although Stiles had been wearing a $3,500 vest, the shooter aimed at the abdomen area, which was exposed when Stiles raised his arms to aim his own weapon and return fire. Stiles was air-lifted to UAB, where he has undergone many surgeries to treat massive internal injuries. The Mississippi Highway Patrol entered the building a few hours later, and found the suspect dead. Sadly, two of Newcomb’s shooting victims were killed; the other two were gravely wounded.

The Pine Belt community immediately united to help support the Stiles family. A fund was set up at the Community Bank, to help with travel and lodging expenses so that Stile’s wife, Tina, could remain at her husband’s side.  The City of Petal organized a softball tournament, called   “Badges at Bat, Swinging for Stiles”.  Several auctions, fund raiser dinners, music concerts, a golf tournament, and a blood drive were also held to assist with the mounting expenses. The fund raisers have been sponsored by local businesses, law enforcement agencies, and private citizens.

“As the City of Petal, we just decided to come together and try to help out a brother,” said Chief Leonard Fuller of the Petal Police Department said, after the softball tournament.  ”If you can keep the family in your prayers and continue to remember him, he’ll continue to get better.”

“This is just an awesome, awesome turnout,” Jones County Sheriff Alex Hodge concurred. “On behalf of Tina and Tony Stiles, we’re just humbled and thankful for what’s gone on over the past couple of weeks and what will go on into the future.”.

Wanda Benson, Public Information Officer for Jones County Sheriff’s Department, has stated that the Department is overjoyed that Stiles is back home and recovering among his family and friends.
Stiles is also a combat wounded veteran. He is highly respected among the Pine Belt Community, as evidenced by their show of love and support.  He has been described as “a true survivor from two different war” and “a great guy, a great deputy.”

Retired Lieutenant Thomas Ruffin, of the Mississippi Tactical Officers Association, also stated: “I am not surprised that Lt. Stiles and the members of his tactical unit and other officers/deputies from the surrounding area performed their duties that day as they did any other day … with a high degree of professionalism and commitment to a safe resolution. Tony and his fellow officers/deputies began their day having the knowledge that, at any moment, they may be called to a scene to resolve a volatile and dangerous situation.”

That knowledge included the reality that by the very nature of these high-risk situations the probability that one or more of them could be injured or killed is significantly higher than it is during the conduct of more commonplace duties of law enforcement officers. As is the way of the majority of law enforcement officers, this knowledge, this inherent danger of life and limb .. did not for even a split second, dissuade Tony and his colleagues from eagerly going to work that day to see what good they could do for their communities. All of that does not surprise me because, quite frankly, I know … most officers know..that they do what they do for the love of their hometowns and the people that reside there.”

Although Lt. Stiles’ recovery has been miraculous, he still has a long, hard road ahead of him. The family sincerely thanks everyone for their continued prayers and support.

A Benefit Bike Ride, auction, and chicken dinner, sponsored by the Hell Fighters Motorcycle Club and Mill Creek Methodist Church, is scheduled Saturday, October 13, at 9 a.m. Registration will begin at 8 a.m.    The bike ride will start at the Hellfighters Motorcycle Shop in Laurel. They then ride to the Chunky River Harley-Davidson Shop in Meridian. The ride will end at Mill Creek Church once they leave Chunky River.

In addition to the bike ride, grilled chicken plates will be sold at the church for $8, starting at 11 a.m. The plate will include grilled chicken quarters, baked beans, potato salad and bread. Tickets for the grilled chicken plates can be purchased at Mill Creek Church, the Jones County Sheriff’s Department, Hell Fighters Bike Shop, Needleworks, and all branches of the Sunbelt Credit Union.

Both a live and silent auction will be held at the church. The silent auction will begin at 11 a.m. and the live auction will begin at 1 p.m. There will be children’s activities, including face painting and a mechanical bull ride. T-shirts, available in children’s and adult sizes, will be sold for $12. For additional information, call Mill Creek Church at 601-426-6993.

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Survivors: Beyond the Flames

10:28 am in Featured, Injured on Duty, Posts, Survivors: Who Wear a Badge by Christal Sizemore

“Everybody faces adversity and tough times. We just have to get used to it.” ~ Paul “Bear” Bryant

“Today is the beginning of a new day! I have been given this day to use as I will. I can waste it, or I can use it for good. What I do today is very important, because I am exchanging a day of my life. When tomorrow comes, this day will be gone forever, leaving something in its place that I have left behind. I want it to be good, not evil; gain and not loss; success, and not failure.  I hope I shall not forget the price I have paid for it.” (Anonymous)

Retired police officer Jason Schechterle uses these words as he shares the extraordinary journey he has taken over the past 11 years.  He refers to it “the most amazing, unexpected journey anyone could have ever taken.” He describes himself as “the luckiest man alive”.

Jason Schechterle had dreamed of being a police officer since he was in high school, and his older brother became an officer. He served four years as an Air Force security officer. Officer Schechterle said, “It was when I found out about the death of (his friend) Officer Mark Atkinson that motivated me. I knew THIS is what I am supposed to do. I applied the very next day.  I loved every minute of being a cop.”

The incident that would change his life forever occurred on March 26, 2001, two years to the day that his friend Mark was killed. An “unknown trouble” call came on the radio, and no units were available. Schechterle volunteered to take the call. He turned on his lights and siren, and headed in that direction. He stopped at an intersection, and his cruiser was struck from behind by a taxi cab that was traveling approximately 115 miles per hour.

Schechterle laughs briefly as he relates the story. “The taxi was carrying a passenger that had just been released from jail. It is ironic because he gets released from jail, and then he boards a cab, and the cab hits a cop.” It was later discovered that the cab driver was in the grip of an epileptic seizure. The force of the impact pushed the Crown Victoria approximately 267 feet, and it burst into flames.

Schechterle was knocked unconscious and was trapped inside the burning hulk for 90 agonizing seconds. Miraculously, a fire squad (who were headed to the same call) witnessed the crash and responded immediately. They risked their own lives to save him from the inferno. Schechterle said, “I was 2 1/2miles from one of the best burn centers in the southwest. They were able to get me there in less than 8 minutes.”

Schechterle suffered third and fourth degree burns over 43% of his body, including his face, arms, hands, torso, and both legs. “I had never heard of fourth degree burns before. Fourth degree burns are so severe that the muscles, tendons, and bone are destroyed.  I lost my ears, eyelids, nose, lips…basically, my entire face,” he said.

Schechterle was in a coma for 2 ½ months. The prognosis was grim. He was not expected to survive, much less walk, talk, and regain his sight.  While he was in the hospital, he endured the first 19 of his 52 surgeries. He had no memory of the crash. When he found out that he had been burned, “I was devastated. I had always been terrified of fire. I had seen burn victims before and thought that was the absolute worst thing that could happen to someone. I had prayed that it would never happen to me.”

However, Schechterle is at peace with his appearance. He said, “It could have been much worse. I could have been in a wheelchair, or I could have been deaf, in addition to being blind.” He credits his surgeon, (Dr. William Leighton), his family, and his best friend for his miraculous recovery.  “Dr. Leighton helped to restore my confidence and my will to survive, to the point that I am happy and proud of the way I look.”

Schechterle remained in the hospital for five months, and he regained his sight after eight months. He described his recovery as “an adjustment”. He said that his wife, Suzie, was calm and strong throughout the whole ordeal. “I never had any doubt that she would be there for me and that she would take care of me.”

Schechterle has maintained his sense of humor. He recalls when he was preparing to leave the hospital: “I was able to get dressed for the first time. My wife was helping me. She was preparing to slip a tee shirt over my head, and the minute she touched me, I said “WAIT!” She jerked back quickly, alarmed, and asked, ‘What is it, did I hurt you?’ I replied, ‘Don’t mess up my hair!’ That was when she knew that I was going to be okay.”

He also credits the city of Phoenix, the fire department, and his immediate and law enforcement families for helping his keep a positive attitude. “I am deeply indebted to them for all they have done for me and for my family,” he said.

Schechterle returned to work eighteen months after the crash. He served as a public information fficer, and later as a homicide detective. When asked why he did not immediately take a medical retirement, Schechterle said, “Being a police officer is a way of life, and I was determined not to give it up. I was going to fight to keep my career. What I look like on the outside did not change who I am on the inside. I was a police officer, not a burn victim.”

Schechterle stated that he loved being a homicide detective. He enjoyed helping the families and being the “voice” for the victims, who could not speak for themselves. However, his eyesight and his missing fingers made it difficult to qualify at the firing range, and, after five and a half years, he made the difficult decision to take a medical retirement. “I felt that I had accomplished all that I could as a police officer,” he said.

His recognitions include the Luke Greenlay Officer of the Year and Detective of the Month. Everest College in Phoenix named their criminal justice school after him. He also carried the Olympic Torch shortly after he was released from the hospital.

Schechterle remains busy, however. He travels the country as a motivational speaker and visits patients at various burn centers.  He has also started a nonprofit foundation called “Beyond the Flames”, to support those suffering from unimaginable adversity, loss, and tragedy (www.beyondtheflames.com). The second annual fundraiser and dinner is scheduled for May 3, and anyone is welcome to attend.

He harbors no bitterness or anger toward the cab driver. “I know that he didn’t deliberately set out to hurt someone,” he said. “He just made a bad choice.” The cab driver was sent to prison for aggravated assault against Schechterle and the passenger and was sentenced to prison; he was released in September, 2010.

Schechterle has no trace of self pity.  He never once asked “Why me?” He said, “Actually, what I thought was ‘Why was I spared?’, because a lot of officers have been killed in similar accidents. If I had not been there, the driver might have hit someone else, so essentially, I probably saved someone else from a similar fate. It could have been a mother and her children, or somebody’s grandparents instead of me. I have been afforded opportunities that might not have been available to me otherwise.”

“Life is beautiful and short,” he continues. “It is ten percent what happens to you, and ninety percent how you deal with it. You can’t control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude. If given a chance, the human spirit can shine. We are so much more than what people see on the outside.”

Schechterle stated that he became a police officer to help others and to save lives. By sharing his story, he has helped many others who are struggling with trials and adversity. Like the olympic torch, Schechterle’s positive spirit shines for all to see. His story is a beacon of hope and inspiration to all of us.

Survivors With A Badge – Deputy Pat Gibson

11:58 am in Featured, Posts, Survivors: Who Wear a Badge by Christal Sizemore

At the age of 17, Deputy Pat Gibson decided that he was going to be a police officer. After graduation from high school, Gibson enlisted in the Unites States Marine Corp Reserves. He joined Okaloosa County Sheriff’s Office.  Gibson then acquired additional certification in corrections.  He worked at the state and at the county level, including Century Correctional Institution and Escambia County Jail in Pensacola, FL.

“The dual certification in law enforcement and corrections has given me a better understanding of the criminal justice system as a whole,” Gibson said. “I have a greater appreciation for both types of officer officers and what their jobs entail. I am a better law enforcement officer because of my experience as a corrections officer.  I know how…former inmates that I meet on the streets think after they are released from jail.”

Gibson was working at the Escambia County Jail when Hurricane Ivan battered the Gulf Coast in September, 2004. “THAT was a learning experience for all of us,” Gibson said. “The jail was without water and power for three weeks. We had to supervise 1700-1800 inmates, and they had to use plastic bags to use the restroom. So we had to be ‘sanitation engineers’, in addition to supervising the inmates.”

The evening of January 23, 2012 started out relatively quietly.  Deputy Gibson was on patrol. He had just cleared a traffic control call for a fire when he heard the voice of a fellow deputy over the radio. One of the K-9 deputies had been trying to arrests someone who was resisting with violence.

Deputy Gibson turned on his lights and sirens and hurried to the deputy’s aid. He remembers that he saw a white Ford Expedition pulled out in front of him, violating the right of way. “There was just no stopping. I didn’t have time,” Gibson stated. The vehicles collided, with Gibson’s rolling after the impact. Miraculously, the Crown Vic missed hitting any of the many pine trees in his path.

“I don’t know how long or how far my patrol car rolled,” said Gibson. “I could not see anything. The windshield had spider webbed. Jesus sent His angels to guide my car as He took the wheel. I did not have my hands on the wheel and my feet were not on the pedals”. When the vehicle stopped rolling, Gibson used his portable to contact dispatch and notify them that he had been involved in a crash. Deputy Andy Stone was the first deputy on scene.  Stone made the call to his wife.

“Lifeguard Ambulance Service diverted one of their units in order to respond to the crash site.” Ironically, the ambulance was en route to the same “officer assistance” call that Gibson had been originally responding to; the arresting deputy’s K -9 had bitten the suspect who was resisting arrest.

Gibson’s wife, Anita Joy, recalled her reaction to the accident, “In thinking back, this was minor compared to many others’ stories, including law enforcement and military. But it was major to me.”

He was taken to Sacred Heart Hospital in Pensacola. He was treated for fractures to his hip and wrist. He was hospitalized for five days as he underwent surgery to repair the multiple fractures.

Gibson is currently undergoing physical therapy to strengthen his arm and wrist. He will soon begin therapy to strengthen his fractured hip. He is using a walker, but he anticipates that he will make a full recovery. “I always get what I expect,” he said.

Gibson offers the following advice to anyone who is faced with a crisis situation:  “The moment I realized that I was going to crash, the ‘survival mindset’ kicked in. You have to decide immediately what the outcome of the situation is going to be. You decide that you WILL get out of this ALIVE.”

“I have always been headstrong,” Gibson continued. “When I set out to achieve something I give it one hundred per cent effort. Just as I made up my mind to be a cop at the age of seventeen, I have made up my mind that I WILL go back to work, even if it is on light duty at first. Just as I had to make up my mind that I will survive the crash, I have had to make up my mind what the results of my rehab will be. ”

“The recovery process is like removing a Band Aid. I can do it quickly and recover; or I can remove it slowly and allow this to plague me the rest of my life. I can choose to be a cripple or to make a full recovery and move on. Perspective is everything. Your attitude controls your altitude.”

“There are not enough words to express our gratitude for all the prayers and support we have received,” Gibson said. “Just to name a few: Lifeguard Ambulance Service, for their quick response; my orthopedic surgeon, Dr. Robert Lurate; the members of my shift who were working with me that night (Sergeant Nathan Hall and Deputies Andy Stone, Joshua White, and Joshua Leach); Sheriff Wendell Hall; the medical staff at Sacred Heart Hospital; and both the law enforcement and civilian communities who have prayed for us throughout this ordeal.”

Gibson stated that he is grateful most of all for his family and his wife, Anita. “Anita was born on the Fourth of July,” he said, his voice growing warmer. “She is also a redhead, so I call her my little Firecracker. I have had to lean on her for a change, and she has shown tremendous strength in this situation.”  Anita adds, “We both realize how God’s timing in all of this literally saved Pat’s life and has allowed him to be a witness to God’s goodness and bringing good things from bad things that happen.”

Gibson stated that he does not consider himself a hero. “This was just an accident, an occupational hazard.  I know that in this profession, I will never get rich, and I don’t expect any real appreciation for doing my job. However, I like to think that I am doing what I can to improve the community. My physical scars are like war wounds. I have a story to share with my grandkids someday.”

Hunting for Heroes

5:33 am in Featured, Fundraiser, Posts, Survivors: Who Wear a Badge by Anne E. Bremer, MCJ, MANAGING EDITOR

Chris Allen is a police officer who believes in the law enforcement community taking care of our own.  And that’s the motto of the organization he co-founded with another LEO, Chuck Bowles, called Hunting for Heroes.

H4H facilitates LEO’s who have been disabled in any way to return to hunting and other active events with the assistance of adaptive equipment and volunteers.  It all started with Chuck and Chris working on a television show, of all things.  As part of the show, the idea of a charity hunt was considered, with the proceeds intended to help an already established organization assisting disabled LEO’s.  Chuck and Chris couldn’t find an organization to sponsor.  They could not find one organization specifically dedicated to assisting the disabled from this honorable profession. Chris and Chuck founded H4H to respond to that need.

Do you want to get involved in assisting disabled heroes?  H4H is always in need of volunteers and special adaptive equipment to help those they serve in outdoor activities.  Do you know of a disabled LEO who would benefit from an association with H4H?  Please pass on this article to them.  You can also register to participate in an H4H event.

H4H will sponsor their first annual trap shoot on Saturday, May 12, 2012 from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. at the Lake Lotawana Sportsmen’s Club in Lake Lotawana, MO.  To register or for more information go to the Hunting for Heroes website at http://huntingforheroes.org/index-1.html or call 816-812-7991.

Living for a Dream

5:31 am in Featured, LEO Needs HELP, Posts, Survivors: Who Wear a Badge by Christal Sizemore

Like a lot of young men, Randy Witherington had always dreamed of being a firefighter, an EMT, or a police officer. He became a junior firefighter in 1979, and participated in the disaster relief effort when Hurricane Fredrick assaulted the Gulf Coast in 1979.

“I was actually in the storm, riding patrol with the Daphne Police Department, and from then on, I was hooked,” he said.

Witherington served in many capacities during his time with the fire department and police, including search and rescue, recovery, and the dive team. He also attained his certification as an EMT. In addition to serving with the Daphne Police Department, Witherington has also worked with MedStar Ambulance, Pennington Police Department, and Summerdale Police Department. “I always said I’d be a police officer, a firefighter, or an EMT, and I have accomplished all three,” said Witherington.

In 1981, Witherington met the love of his life, Ashley Lancaster, and they married in 1985.  Their marriage was a happy one that produced two daughters, Denise and Sara.

“Ashley is one of the funniest people I have ever met,” Witherington said. “She loved life and she loved to laugh. In fact, she had a vanity plate on her car that read: “10 NTY6″, which is the ten code for a mentally disturbed person (10-96). We were meant for one another.  We had so much fun together. Her only fault was that she smoked. I bribed her to quit smoking with the promise of a vacation to the Bahamas if she would quit smoking.”

The two had plans to grow old together, until the Witheringtons received news that would forever change their lives. Although she stopped smoking in 2008, Ashley developed a chronic cough. She was diagnosed with cancer, and doctors removed her lower left lung.

“She underwent chemo as a preventive measure, to keep the cancer from coming back. I had only heard of how chemo can ravage a person’s body until now. After chemo, the cancer came back in her lymph nodes. And once again, I almost had a heart attack,” Witherington said.

After 39 radiation treatments, Ashley was once again cancer free. But the cancer returned, and Witherington said doctors told them there was no other option.

In March of 2010, Ashley was given twelve months to live. The Witheringtons researched treatment centers.  With the help of Relay for Life and Hope Lodge, Ashley received the treatment that she needed. Every 21 days, the Witheringtons traveled to Vanderbilt Ingram Cancer Center in Nashville for treatment. Ashley bravely endured the treatment, but sadly, she lost her fight for life on December 21, 2011.

“This is the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with, and I would never wish it on any one person. You never know how strong a person is until cancer and chemo comes into your life,” said Witherington. “Ashley is in the arms of God now. She is loved and missed by all.”

Just before Ashley passed away, the two of them took a dream vacation that inspired Witherington to help others.

“This amazing trip brought back such life in her, that we began thinking of how many people are just trying to stay alive and do not have such an opportunity,” said Witherington.  “There is the ‘Make A Wish’ foundation for children with terminal illness, but there isn’t anything like that for adults. Ashley wanted to start a non profit organization to help terminally ill cancer patients to have the same opportunity. She wanted to have a pink police car to represent our organization and as an ‘attention-getter’. ”

In memory of his wife, Witherington created a group called Living for a Dream to raise cancer awareness by contributing to the American Cancer Society and Relay for Life. He wants to help patients who are suffering from terminal cancer by providing dream vacations.

Witherington is a part-time police officer in Pennington, Alabama.   Along with friends and fellow officers, he created a pink police car to promote their foundation. “We purchased this car from Gov Deals one day before Ashley passed away. We had a painter at Robinson Brothers Ford/Lincoln/Mercury/Volvo in Mobile donate his amazing talents and hard work. Custom Order Police Specialties (COPS) in Loxley and Sound Off Signal have transformed the car with lights, siren push bumper, camera and cage. Bobby Lay and his wife, of Riviera Utilities donated their time and talent to re-upholster the interior.

“The car came in as a total wreck. We replaced several body parts, mechanical parts, have brand new lighting, interior,” said Glen Davies, a friend of Witherington. “We’re completing something she (Ashley) wanted to do with Randy to begin with. So, we all came together and it’s a dream come true,” Davies said.

The car has been painted pink, purple, and white to represent all types of cancer. They even detailed the inside of the car from the headliner to the floorboards.

“Legally, we can stop you, write you tickets, and take you to jail in a pink police car,” said Witherington.

The car made its debut at the Relay for Life event in downtown Foley, Alabama, on Friday, April 13. It will also be on display at the Relay for Life in Orange Beach, Alabama, on Friday, April 20. Future appearances include Relay for Life events in Butler, Alabama on April 28, and in Daphne, Alabama, on May 11.

“Our mission is statement is to raise cancer awareness by contributing to the American Cancer Society and by helping adult cancer patients who are suffering from terminal cancer by providing vacations as a respite from this deadly disease,” said Witherington.

Now COPS has a whole new meaning: “Caring Officers Providing Support”. “We are getting back to the real meaning of policing, which is helping the community, not just putting people in jail,” said Witherington.

To make a donation to the organization, contact Randy Witherington at (251) 747-3908. Checks may be written to Living for a Dream. The website, which is still under construction, iswww.livingforadream.org.

Police Officer Terry Fent

11:45 am in Featured, Fundraiser, Injured on Duty, LEO Needs HELP, Posts, Survivors: Who Wear a Badge by Christal Sizemore

Although none his immediate family members are law enforcement, Summerdale Police Officer Terry Fent describes himself as a true “Blue Blood”. “My dad owned a service station, and a log of his customers were in law enforcement. I always admired and respected them. Once, an Alabama state trooper gave me a trooper’s hat.  I used to ride around on my Big Wheel and pretend to issue speeding tickets. I watched all the cop shows, like ‘Dragnet, ‘CHiPs’, and Miami Vice’.”

Fent’s career began when he was hired at Robertsdale (Alabama) Police Department, where he served in communications and detention. Over the past fourteen years, he has worked Foley Police Department; the Silverhill Police Department, and Summerdale Police Department.

“I enjoyed every aspect of the job. Just like Joe Friday, I memorized every state statute and departmental policy and procedure,” he said. “I love serving my community. I learned about community policing from the late Chief Bob Williams and Officer Brian Middleton of the Robertsdale Police Department. They established rapport with people, learned their names, and became acquainted with their concerns. I still apply their philosophy when I am interacting with the public. When people know you care, it makes a difference in how they perceive all law enforcement.”

On February 18, 2012, Fent was involved in a traffic crash that nearly ended his career and his life. He had been newly hired at the Summerdale Police Department, and he was on his way to mandated training. “I remember that the weather was inclement that day.  All I saw was a bushy tail. I’m always telling people not to swerve to avoid an animal, but that is exactly what I did,” he said wryly.

The truck ran off the road, and struck a culvert. He was found by two of his fellow officers, who dispatched emergency crews and notified Chief Eddie Ingram. Fent was rushed to USA Medical Center in Mobile. He suffered fractures to his neck and spine, facial lacerations, and internal bruising. After witnessing Fent’s injuries, his family and friends feared the worst. However, Fent’s courageous spirit prevailed.  “At first, I was excited just to be able to wiggle my toes,” he said. “But three days after the crash, the medical staff asked me if I wanted to take a few steps. I replied, “No, I don’t want to take a few steps; I want to walk the whole floor!” He was released from the hospital after only twenty days.

Unfortunately, Fent’s medical expenses were not covered by health insurance. According to Summerdale Police Chief Eddie Ingram, their employees are not eligible for health insurance until they have successfully completed the 90 day probationary period. When this information was revealed, the community united to assist him. The police department set up a benefit fund in his name, and a fish fry was organized to help raise money for his medical expenses. Another fundraiser is scheduled for April 22; it includes a motorcycle ride, live music, and entertainment.

In spite of the fact that he was just seven days away from being eligible for health insurance, Fent has no trace of bitterness or self pity. On the contrary, he hopes that his accident will prevent others from having to go without insurance during their probationary phase.

When this information was revealed, the community united to fund Fent’s medical bills.  They organized a benefit fund in his name and a fish fry to raise money.  Another fundraiser is scheduled for April 22; it includes a motorcycle ride, live music, and entertainment.

Fent described how the crash has changed his perspective, and his life. “There is so much to be thankful for,” he began. “I am blessed that my injuries were not as bad as they could have been. I could have lost my eyesight, or the use of my limbs; or I could have sustained head trauma, or permanent internal injuries. I am a walking miracle.”  He may require further procedures to repair the bone shards in his neck; however, he hopes to return to work full time within the next two months.

Fent is not bothered by the slight scars from the facial lacerations. “I am not disfigured,” he said. “They are not scars; it is a badge of honor.  It shows the world that I am a survivor, not a victim.”

Fent stated that there are many reasons for his miraculous recovery.  “I attribute my progress to the Summerdale police officers, the fire department, and Medstar EMS who acted so swiftly; and the amazing medical professionals at USA Medical Center.  I am also overwhelmed and humbled by the outpouring of support that I have received from my immediate family, my law enforcement family, and my community,” he said. “It is because of their prayers and my faith that I am still here.”  He added that he has been given a second chance at life, and that he intends to live each day to its fullest potential.

“There are opportunities that have yet to be fulfilled. I am looking forward to contributing more to my community. When I was at USA Medical Center, I received get-well cards from children at Summerdale Elementary School. I want to personally thank them, and maybe talk to them about personal safety and my career. I remember how I was inspired by the police officers who took time with me when I was a child. I hope that I will be able to give back in the same manner that I have been given. The good Lord wasn’t finished with me yet. He’s got plans for me, and I plan to use every day like it is the gift that it is.”

Friends and supporters will be holding a fundraiser for Officer Fent at Oak Hollow Farm

Sunday, April 22 at 12:00.  Call Allyson at 251-424-4206 for more information.

Survivors With A Badge

5:18 am in Featured, Posts, Survivors: Who Wear a Badge by Christal Sizemore

“I am going to kill you, cop! Do you hear me? “ Almost every officer has heard these chilling words when arresting a violent felon. For retired Deputy Jerry Henderson, Jr., these words would haunt him the rest of his life.

Jerry Henderson dreamed of being a police officer ever since he was a child. He grew up watching television programs, such as “Adam 12” and “Dragnet”. He remembers playing “cops and robbers” with his friends. “I always got to be the good guy”, he said with a chuckle.

Henderson joined the Pensacola, Florida Police Department as a cadet in 1981. He attended Basic Recruit Training, and he became a fully certified officer in 1983.  For Henderson, it was more than a profession; it was a unique calling. “I absolutely loved it. I was doing exactly what I was meant to do: helping others, and making Pensacola a safer place,” he said.

In October, 1984, he arrested a violent felon, Frank Edward Perricola, III, on charges of carrying a concealed firearm, battery on a law enforcement officer, and armed trespassing. According to Henderson, Perricola told the responding officers that he knew where they lived, and threatened to kill each of them.

Perricola tried to carry out his death threat on December 14, 1984. He rented a vehicle and backed into the parking lot, waiting for Henderson to from his shift. As Henderson exited his vehicle, Perricola opened fire with a 9 mm Uzi. The first round struck Henderson in the back, paralyzing him. Perricola continued to advance on Henderson.  In total, Perricola fired nine.  In addition to being struck in the back, Henderson also suffered wounds to his right arm and both legs. Perricola fled the scene and left Henderson for dead. Perricola was later apprehended and convicted on numerous charges. He is imprisoned for life.

Fortunately, Henderson always carried his portable radio with him and was able to call for help. A nearby ambulance heard the call and rushed to the scene. Henderson had no blood pressure, nearly bled out, but never lost consciousness.

The bullets that struck Henderson left him paralyzed from the waist down. He spent six months in a rehabilitation facility and has endured five major spinal procedures. “The first year, I suffered debilitating depression.  I have lived in chronic pain for the past 25 years,” he said. “But with prayer, and the support of my family, my community, and the Pensacola Police Department, I pulled through.”

“There were days when I would be feeling sorry for myself, because I couldn’t use my legs,” he said. “I seriously contemplated taking own life a number of times. Then I met Tim Lee, a Marine who served in the Viet Nam War and lost both legs when he stepped on a land mine. We went fishing together, and he helped me to put things in perspective.”

One year after the incident, Henderson triumphantly returned to work part time in the radio room. “The goal of returning to work is what motivated me through the recovery process,” he said. “I was determined that Perricola would not take my career away from me.” He then served as a Public Information Officer (PIO), recruiter, and trainer.  In 2000, he transferred to Santa Rosa Sheriff’s Office and served as their PIO. He retired in 2005, due to health issues.

Henderson has been received many commendations during his career. He was inducted in the Policeman’s Hall of Fame in 1985, and he was awarded the Bronze Cross and the Blue Star (the equivalent of a Purple Heart). He was voted Handicapped Person of the Year in 1987.

Though he is retired, Henderson has continued to make a difference in the lives of others. Inspired by those who have prayed for him throughout his ordeal, Henderson started a prayer ministry for law enforcement called Gulf Coast Adopt a Cop. In addition, he has served as a public speaker, sharing his message of hope and inspiration. He has also helped to organize the annual Law Enforcement Recognition Sunday at Marcus Pointe Baptist Church in Pensacola, FL.  “It is scheduled for sometime in May,’ he said. “Everyone is invited to attend.”

Henderson concluded with some words of wisdom. First, he said, “Be thankful for your blessings. Don’t focus on yourself, your own pain, and your own problems. I felt sorry for myself because I couldn’t use my legs. Then I went to Craig Hospital in Breckinridge, Colorado, and I saw individuals who are on ventilators and could not move anything but their eyes. I felt humbled, because can still feed myself, hug my kids, hunt, fish, and do the things I enjoy. After spending time with these people, I realize that I have NO problems at all.”

Henderson also advises, “Don’t isolate your family and your friends. Keep them close, stay connected, and let them know how much you appreciate them.”

Finally, he said, “Don’t let anyone steal your joy. Life is short, so make every minute of it. Perricola tried to kill me, but he did not ruin my life.  I am blessed simply to be alive. I have experienced more joy in my life. I became a police officer so that I could help others. I believe that I have been able to help more people by sharing my story that I could have had this not happened to me. I am still doing exactly what I was meant to do, and doing it more effectively.”

With his courage, determination, and perseverance, Henderson truly a hero to his family, his community, and to all the members of The Thin Blue Line.